What else does the youth want?
Aisha Jehangir Khan
When was the
last time you wanted to buy a new mobile set or eat the new Mc Arabia? Or
may be wanted to get a new job with a smart salary package? I guess just the
last minute? With loads of bombarded media messages daily has the youth
ended up in the state of confusion or demands of an extra-ordinary luxurious
life where everything that makes life easy is accessible at one point of the
finger?
Our world starts from the term money, revolves around it and ends on it.
Gone are the days when we used to carry small diaries in our hands and noted
each and every penny that we spent , now the condition has reached to the
time when we no more talk about hundreds and thousands, instead we talk in
lakhs and crores. We plan to open industries and big Multi National
Companies (MNC's) as soon as we get over with our graduation. Most of us try
to get a minimum of a call center's job while still finishing up with our
final studies and respectively most of us even succeed in doing so. If you
don't trust me just check out the number of young students working in the
call centers of our city. My teenage brother talks about getting a job in a
call center and earning up to fifteen thousand a month or even more, the
least we do is laugh at him but that does not affect his seriousness about
working.
Today's time and space , we come up with luxurious demands of highly
expensive gadgets, mobile phones, branded dresses and all that makes us a
prominent part of a complete young individual. We want to study in big and
famous educational institutions, socialize with friends as much as we want
to, independent of everything, and celebrate our birthdays in famous
restaurants to earn appreciation of our peers and friends. We can no more
depend on a single birthday cake for our party.
When we are restricted from something morally or forcefully by our parents,
we find out alternatives to satisfy our elders. For instance just take this
"sheesha culture" that has invaded the lives of our youth so drastically
that meals without a sheesha have nearly become unimaginable. Has the
sheesha replaced cigarettes or is it the cigarettes that have taken new
shape and form to calm our older generation, to whom cigarettes are near to
insanity? Restaurants and cafes attract the youth by advertising on big
billboards on the roads and in front of colleges and universities and surely
do not forget to remind them that "sheesha is served". Even for a cup of
coffee, we prefer a nearby café or a lounge.
When it comes to in-house activities, the demands of the youth have
increased so much that we can not survive if not given a separate room,
sharing rooms with siblings has become a story that has nearly dissolved
with time and of course changing trends. A separate T.V set will be a bonus!
When asked the reasons of such advancements and dependency on artificial
objects to make life independent, the blame is all put on the changing
trends in our country, but does change teach us to run after expensive
gadgets, excessive socializing, branded dresses and love for money? Do
changing social values force us to let go of our moral values? Definitely
NO! Then who is responsible for all of this? Is the media at the back of
promoting this or has the youth become puppets in the hands of the
advertising agencies that drive their lives according to what the TV is
showing them and what radio is telling them. Which cold drink to drink,
which brand to wear, which song to hear, which ice cream to eat, which
burger to eat and even now when cigarettes and tobacco has been nearly
stopped to be advertised, so now what flavor of sheesha to smoke at your
favorite restaurant.
Life for today's youth is a golden spoon with almost all luxuries of life,
but still they are confused about making the right choice and adopting
lifestyles that they are satisfied in. Often in this race to fulfill demands
and catch up with the new changing globalized world of artificiality and
materialism, the youth tend to get lose on their moral thermometers. What is
seen is just the reward in fact and the means are forgotten, for which some
of us realize the moral barriers but most do not. Moral thermometers refer
to the state of realization of our responsibilities and actualization of
moral values within us and the factor that does not let us lose control of
our moral values, which has to be on its highest temperatures as being
responsible citizens and youth of our country. We are the next generation of
this country and have 100% share in forwarding lessons to the next
generation proceeding us. We are responsible not only for our selves but
also for our coming generations. To live a life of such luxury that is based
utterly on material objects is in fact doing un just to our fore fathers and
our parents. These artificialities of life are not what makes us human
beings, rather the purity of our soul and the simplicity of our personality,
the truth in our words and the love for our country makes us a true human
being, A TRUE PAKISTANI YOUTH! |